The fact that every AH site is not run by someone who explicitly excludes people who for lack of a better word are too tied into the AH.com subculture is why we keep getting versions of AH.com that are small like HA or here.
Othertimelines was the best of the lot but even it died and had an incoherent timeline format.
Don't do it, Nike. It just isn't worth it. Do like I am doing right now, and take a few weeks of minimal activity here. Only stop by every few days, and then limit yourself to only about 5-10 minutes here when you do. It really helps to calm your nerves.
As to your question about steampunk combined with cyberpunk, I think there is a book about a future society where the tech is very advanced, and the main character is a member of a society that has adopted Victorian dress and style. The Centauri of Babylon 5 come to mind too.